Approaching Women

  In my 25 years of being a relationship expert and personal matchmaker, I found that women love to be with men who inquire and ask meaningful questions. They demonstrate that you are interested in her as a person, able to focus your attention, and can sustain a conversation. However, asking the wrong questions can…

Women are expressive creatures. They love to chat with friends and family about the men they date. But to what extent?  THE NITTY GRITTY DETAILS Women tell their friends just about every detail you can imagine. Yes, women are much more expressive and descriptive about their love lives than you are. From the way you…

The women you want to connect with are fed up with dating apps and leaving them in droves. Free dating apps were designed to give you access and options but they do the opposite. There’s a invisible barrier that’s been created making it more challenging to meet great women and we know why. THE PROBLEM:…

In this new world of dating apps, whether you’re on them or not, the landscape, behavior, and expectations in dating have changed. Most of your complaints revolve around wasted time and the extra effort that amounts to nothing.  But what we also know it’s difficult to stop swiping in hope one match will have the…

Vulnerability gets a bad rap. This word, one of the most powerful words in dating, is often misused and misunderstood. So often in fact, that everywhere you turn, people are teaching vulnerability. As if it is so new and foreign this inherent characteristic requires a guided class or weekend seminar. You’ve most likely attempted to…

It’s not uncommon for a man to believe his perfect age difference is down ten to twenty years below his own age. The belief (although a false one) means more time to travel before marriage, less pressure to start a family or meeting a woman who hasn’t had a lot of dating and relationship experience…

This month, we’ve been discussing the list you’ve created to describe your ideal woman. Is it this ideal real and tangible or superficial and getting in your way? If you missed Part 1 of the series, click here to read about how you should listen to your pet peeves, not dismiss them. To continue this…

ARE YOU USING A DATING APP TO MEET WOMEN IN LOS ANGELES? If you’re single and dating in LA, you’ve probably tried Tinder, Bumble, even Happn? Yikes. I know what comes with that. Maybe you’re at the point where it feels like: “Finding the woman I want to spend my life with is a mission…

It’s a popular (yet false) belief that men need to be convinced to be in relationships while all women are ready and waiting to dive in. Not necessarily true. Women go through their own stages of readiness and although they may say they’d like to meet a great guy, their actions can prove otherwise. I recently covered this…

Dating apps may be free to download, but are they costing you too much? Before we dive into the cost, let’s talk about your mindset. Current studies show that 4 out of 5 singles have online dating profiles. Does this mean that you have a better chance of meeting a fantastic woman? Not necessarily. Greater…

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