Why the Love You Want Can’t Be Found Online.

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The women you want to connect with are fed up with dating apps and leaving them in droves. Free dating apps were designed to give you access and options but they do the opposite. There’s a invisible barrier that’s been created making it more challenging to meet great women and we know why.

THE PROBLEM: YOU’RE A SLAVE TO YOUR PHONE.

Instead of making life easier and more efficient, apps are taking up more of your valuable time. Managing texts with random women you most likely won’t meet in person and juggling multiple dating accounts.

You’re now a prisoner to your phone. You’ve even found yourself out on dates or out with friends checking your messages. You’re no longer living in the moment.

Your hope is diminishing with every swipe and every hour you spend on meaningless, futureless first dates.

You’re not alone.

THE EFFECT OF MEANINGLESS SWIPING ON GREAT WOMEN.

Women are sensitive creatures and are pretty good at self-care. The smart, attractive ones typically  delete their apps within 90 days because they value themselves, their time and their own sense of well-being.

The ones who remain on the apps are quite frankly, not as secure. They’re afraid to delete their apps for fear they won’t meet a guy. The shopping mentality on the apps is making them miserable, but yet they remain.

THIS HAS HAPPENED TO YOU.

You see an attractive person on an app and reach out with a nice note. Crickets, delayed responses or total flakiness. Or best case scenario, you make it to the date and find negative attributes about the person sitting across the table from you.  They’re  insecure, combative, negative,  pretentious, or shy.  Not to mention you’re both nervous because you’re praying that when you meet this total stranger, there’s a physical spark.

MEET SOMEONE ON YOUR LEVEL.

The love you want – the one that includes mutual chemistry, adoration, and values – is most likely not on your dating apps. The one you want respects their time and heart and left. They’re making smarter choices in how they spend their free time, opening themselves up again to meeting people organically, and even quite possibly a private and qualified space like I created with LEVEL.

Your time is valuable. Use it wisely and you’ll be that much closer to finding an incredible person to share your life with.

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