Everywhere you turn, you’re being asked to make resolutions for 2021 and to set your goals. There’s a lot of pressure to perform, to be strong, to charge ahead, to “reach your goals this year”. Don’t get me wrong, writing down your goals is a good thing. We all know that if we just talk…
Singlehood
I cry at every wedding. Whether it’s a happy client tying the knot, a dear friend who’s found their happy ever after or a family member. If I’m attending, it’s going to be waterworks, for sure. Last month on a sandy beach on the Cape was no exception. Our very own Jayme Hupfer, the woman…
Many single men and women believe that having common interests with the person they’re dating makes them a great match. Often this means neglecting their most important needs in order to satisfy the desire for an activity buddy. The truth is, people have the wrong idea about what makes two people truly compatible. So, let’s…
The speed and inefficiencies of dating apps have dashed a lot of hope out there and with this, even the kindest people skip over some basic gestures that inspire women to connect. As a professional matchmaker, I’m not a fan of dating rules but I do have a few tips to help you avoid the…
It’s a popular (yet false) belief that men need to be convinced to be in relationships while all women are ready and waiting to dive in. Not necessarily true. Women go through their own stages of readiness and although they may say they’d like to meet a great guy, their actions can prove otherwise. I recently covered this…
The woman you want is out there. But, is it possible to get everything you want and need? You’ve met women who have the personality you click with but the attraction and passion were missing. There have been plenty of women you were wildly attracted to, but you couldn’t see a life with them let…
This month, we’ve been discussing the list you’ve created to describe your ideal woman. Is it this ideal real and tangible or superficial and getting in your way? If you missed Part 1 of the series, click here to read about how you should listen to your pet peeves, not dismiss them. To continue this…
Vulnerability gets a bad rap. This word, one of the most powerful words in dating, is often misused and misunderstood. So often in fact, that everywhere you turn, people are teaching vulnerability. As if it is so new and foreign this inherent characteristic requires a guided class or weekend seminar. You’ve most likely attempted to…
