When you think he’s not ready for a relationship, you have to move on.

You’ve fallen for a man, he’s fallen for you, but for one reason or another, he’s not ready to be in a real committed relationship. Your feelings for this person are strong, so you’re left wondering how to move forward, with or without him?

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Firstly, if a man is “not relationship ready” for any reason, that – by definition – means he’s not. And if he’s not, don’t waste your time with him.

But okay, if you need dramatic proof, consider the evidence. If a man isn’t single, he just isn’t available. He may be living in a nonfunctioning marriage or with an ex, but he’s still not available.

If you find yourself intertwined with someone not relationship ready, you need to make the right choice for yourself. Here are my suggestions:

  • Move on! Don’t waste your time with a guy that isn’t ready.
  • Realize that if you’re attracting this kind of attention, you yourself are not relationship ready.
  • Get yourself ready – for the RIGHT kind of man.

Commit to taking steps in the coming year to develop a better sense of your authentic self, so you can determine what you want and deserve in a guy.

Trust your instincts and don’t settle for someone you have to wait around on. You deserve a guy that’s ready for you!

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