With the advent of dating apps, people are hesitant to “take the risk” of approaching someone they find attractive. Technology has not only changed our behavior but also our natural instincts!
Potential partners are all around you. Look up from your phone, make eye contact, and smile. See what happens. If your smile is returned, go over and introduce yourself. This goes for both men and women. What’s the worst that can happen? They’re already in a relationship. They aren’t interesting. They’re rude. They say no. None of those things have anything to do with you.
The truth is, the more people you speak to, the more likely you are to discover a connection with someone. So many women I meet think it’s a man’s job to say hello, but men appreciate a woman who appears open and friendly.
That being said, men, go up and say hello!
You have nothing to lose and only everything to gain.
Next time you’re out, try to talk to a few people you see as you go about your routine. It can be 30 seconds of your time, but try to make connections every and anywhere, you never know when love will strike.
If you’re still stuck, that’s why we are here. LEVEL matchmaking not only makes introductions for you, but we also qualify them to make sure they are the right person for you.
Dating isn’t challenging, we just need to return to dating’s natural eb and flow instead of trying to control the tide with technology.