The women you want to connect with are fed up with dating apps and leaving them in droves. Free dating apps were designed to give you access and options but they do the opposite. There’s a invisible barrier that’s been created making it more challenging to meet great women and we know why. THE PROBLEM:…
Advice for Men
Have you ever wondered why shopping for the perfect gift for someone can create a huge amount of stress? Even when you have a few ideas to start with it seems the more you look, the harder it is to find. Each time you go into a store, the pressure builds. You start to feel…
Recently I sat down at Focus TV with Dr. Erin Haskell, a life coach and thought leader, to discuss the “turmoil” among “the swipers” in other words, the confusion, and frustration created by technology that is supposed to make meeting people and dating easier and more efficient. Dating apps have created a disconnect between people. You…
In this new world of dating apps, whether you’re on them or not, the landscape, behavior, and expectations in dating have changed. Most of your complaints revolve around wasted time and the extra effort that amounts to nothing. But what we also know it’s difficult to stop swiping in hope one match will have the…
In my newsletters, I include a section called “Table for Two” to give you ideas on where you can take your LEVEL dates. For quick reference, I’m housing them here so you can check back in whenever you need a suggestion. CLASSIC AND IMPRESSIVE You can’t go wrong with a restaurant she knows and the…
Vulnerability gets a bad rap. This word, one of the most powerful words in dating, is often misused and misunderstood. So often in fact, that everywhere you turn, people are teaching vulnerability. As if it is so new and foreign this inherent characteristic requires a guided class or weekend seminar. You’ve most likely attempted to…
It’s not uncommon for a man to believe his perfect age difference is down ten to twenty years below his own age. The belief (although a false one) means more time to travel before marriage, less pressure to start a family or meeting a woman who hasn’t had a lot of dating and relationship experience…
Ghosting. It’s a fairly new term that has spread through the single dating app market like wildfire. But, what does it really mean? Are men and women more flakey than previous generations? And if so, what happened to common decency and manners? People haven’t changed. Technology has changed. When someone disappears or “ghosts” you, your gut…
It’s a popular (yet false) belief that men need to be convinced to be in relationships while all women are ready and waiting to dive in. Not necessarily true. Women go through their own stages of readiness and although they may say they’d like to meet a great guy, their actions can prove otherwise. I recently covered this…
The speed and inefficiencies of dating apps have dashed a lot of hope out there and with this, even the kindest people skip over some basic gestures that inspire women to connect. As a professional matchmaker, I’m not a fan of dating rules but I do have a few tips to help you avoid the…
