Vulnerability gets a bad rap. This word, one of the most powerful words in dating, is often misused and misunderstood. So often in fact, that everywhere you turn, people are teaching vulnerability. As if it is so new and foreign this inherent characteristic requires a guided class or weekend seminar. You’ve most likely attempted to…
Communication
In this new world of dating apps, whether you’re on them or not, the landscape, behavior, and expectations in dating have changed. Most of your complaints revolve around wasted time and the extra effort that amounts to nothing. But what we also know it’s difficult to stop swiping in hope one match will have the…
Recently I sat down at Focus TV with Dr. Erin Haskell, a life coach and thought leader, to discuss the “turmoil” among “the swipers” in other words, the confusion, and frustration created by technology that is supposed to make meeting people and dating easier and more efficient. Dating apps have created a disconnect between people. You…
I have a long standing mission to help men date smarter. My greatest professional satisfaction comes from knowing I’ve made it possible for two exceptional people to find the partner that has eluded them. Top Tips for Successful LEVEL Dates 1. Relax, your date already knows you’re amazing. As a LEVEL member, you now have…
Women are expressive creatures. They love to chat with friends and family about the men they date. But to what extent? THE NITTY GRITTY DETAILS Women tell their friends just about every detail you can imagine. Yes, women are much more expressive and descriptive about their love lives than you are. From the way you…
Your family and upbringing often influence your choices in a partner, for both good and bad, as well as your approach to relationships. As with any struggle in your life, it’s not what you’ve been through that matters, it’s how you’ve dealt with it. It’s your story and everything in your life has developed your…
What are the ingredients for love? Is it possible for a relationship to bloom if the chemistry isn’t there? Relationships can only survive when there’s both emotional and physical chemistry. Otherwise, every nice person to come along who shares your interests would be your girlfriend or boyfriend. Chemistry is often immediate, but it can…
From the moment a woman finds herself interested in a guy, she starts contemplating how to get his attention. Her instincts tell her to make a move, but then a little voice in her head warns that the strategy could backfire. A swirl of conflicting dating advice starts circling through her mind. Does it have to…
In my 25 years of being a relationship expert and personal matchmaker, I found that women love to be with men who inquire and ask meaningful questions. They demonstrate that you are interested in her as a person, able to focus your attention, and can sustain a conversation. However, asking the wrong questions can…
