Relationship Advice

If you’ve been “out there” in the dating world at all in the last 5 years, chances are you’ve been ghosted. Or you’ve ghosted. No judgement here…Well, maybe a little…But we do get it; studies show that if you’ve been ghosted, you’re more likely to do the same to someone else. There are lots of reasons…

I’m excited to share with you 10 things I’ve learned from 10 years of marriage. But first, let me pain you a picture of my wedding day… It was a scorching hot day in late September of 2009. 105 degrees to be exact.  I said “I do” at the beautiful Regale Winery in the Santa…

Believe it or not, men are pretty easy to understand and know. For the past two decades, I’ve had the privilege of working as a relationship expert and professional matchmaker, assisting accomplished, marriage-focused men in finding meaningful connections. They’ve all been unique with different backgrounds, needs, desires, and lifestyle goals, but there’s a common thread…

If you’re feeling frustrated with dating and exhausted from the search for love, you’re not alone. We’re all aware of the ups and downs of dating and the behaviors that have attributed to the decline in morale amongst singles. It’s not just women, either. Men are just as depleted. The speed and inefficiencies of dating…

I recently had the pleasure of being the guest dating & relationship expert for the Dating & Relationship episode of Face The Truth airing on CBS May 8th. I love sharing my advice and insight in the media for singles and couples looking for more confidence and clarity. This episode is full of awesome wisdom from…

Men make massive mistakes on dates all the time. I know, I get it. It’s enough to make you crazy and give up dating all together. But, ever wonder if you’ve unknowingly made mistakes that might have crushed your chances at a second date? I’ve been in the coaching and matchmaking industry for twenty years…

“Why Are You Still Single?” It’s the go-to question everyone seems to be asking (or least thinking about) on first dates. What’s your response when asked why you’re still single? Head for the exit door? Deflect the question or tell your date it’s “too soon” for such a heavy topic? If you’re looking for a…

Dating apps may be free to download, but are they costing you too much? Before we dive into the cost, let’s talk about your mindset. Current studies show that 4 out of 5 singles have online dating profiles. Does this mean that you have a better chance of meeting a wonderful guy? Not necessarily. Greater…

What do you need for true compatibility with a partner? It’s more than just your attraction, chemistry and shared interests. Here’s a top 10 list to serve as your trusted guide. If you haven’t yet read Part 1 of our compatibility series, you can check it out here. In my 20 years as a successful…

Many single men and women believe that having common interests with the person they’re dating makes them a great match. Often this means neglecting their most important needs in order to satisfy the desire for an activity buddy.  The truth is, people have the wrong idea about what makes two people truly compatible. So, let’s…

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