Everywhere you turn, you’re being asked to make resolutions for 2021 and to set your goals. There’s a lot of pressure to perform, to be strong, to charge ahead, to “reach your goals this year”. Don’t get me wrong, writing down your goals is a good thing. We all know that if we just talk…
Marriage
I’ve been joining Anna Faris as one of her resident experts to offer qualified advice for your love life on a number of episodes of her brilliant, funny, and poignant podcast, Unqualified. In this most recent episode, we help two callers with their dating challenges, made more difficult by the pandemic. I’m a big believer…
You’re probably discovering a lot of things you don’t really need anymore. Much like we’re reprioritizing our financial spending, now that we’re practicing “safer at home”, our relationship priorities have shifted to the more fundamental, core needs. We have ourselves a new dating economy. Until recently, we were distracted by the more superficial or less…
Valentine’s Day is approaching so this is the perfect time to send you inspiration in the form of an ultimate survival guide! Whether you’re single and searching, coming out of a relationship, or currently in one, this holiday tends to create a ton of excitement…and dread. Expectations are sky-high this time of year and with…
I cry at every wedding. Whether it’s a happy client tying the knot, a dear friend who’s found their happy ever after or a family member. If I’m attending, it’s going to be waterworks, for sure. Last month on a sandy beach on the Cape was no exception. Our very own Jayme Hupfer, the woman…
I’m excited to share with you 10 things I’ve learned from 10 years of marriage. But first, let me pain you a picture of my wedding day… It was a scorching hot day in late September of 2009. 105 degrees to be exact. I said “I do” at the beautiful Regale Winery in the Santa…
I recently had the pleasure of being the guest dating & relationship expert for the Dating & Relationship episode of Face The Truth airing on CBS May 8th. I love sharing my advice and insight in the media for singles and couples looking for more confidence and clarity. This episode is full of awesome wisdom from…
You’ve met someone you really like. Things are heating up and it’s clear you’re getting closer on the physical front. But, what if he’s still dating other women? When do you ask for exclusivity and how do you go about it? It’s an individual approach that’s required and one that involves self-awareness, willpower, and confidence….
When my husband proposed, all I kept thinking was: “ Wow, this is it! This is the moment that I’ve helped create for so many others!” Time stood still, or at least I felt like it had. We were looking at the beautiful San Francisco bay. It was surreal. Perfect. Amazing. I was filled with…