Compatibility

I cry at every wedding. Whether it’s a happy client tying the knot, a dear friend who’s found their happy ever after or a family member. If I’m attending, it’s going to be waterworks, for sure. Last month on a sandy beach on the Cape was no exception. Our very own Jayme Hupfer, the woman…

I’m excited to share with you 10 things I’ve learned from 10 years of marriage. But first, let me pain you a picture of my wedding day… It was a scorching hot day in late September of 2009. 105 degrees to be exact.  I said “I do” at the beautiful Regale Winery in the Santa…

Believe it or not, men are pretty easy to understand and know. For the past two decades, I’ve had the privilege of working as a relationship expert and professional matchmaker, assisting accomplished, marriage-focused men in finding meaningful connections. They’ve all been unique with different backgrounds, needs, desires, and lifestyle goals, but there’s a common thread…

Dating apps may be free to download, but are they costing you too much? Before we dive into the cost, let’s talk about your mindset. Current studies show that 4 out of 5 singles have online dating profiles. Does this mean that you have a better chance of meeting a wonderful guy? Not necessarily. Greater…

What do you need for true compatibility with a partner? It’s more than just your attraction, chemistry and shared interests. Here’s a top 10 list to serve as your trusted guide. If you haven’t yet read Part 1 of our compatibility series, you can check it out here. In my 20 years as a successful…

Many single men and women believe that having common interests with the person they’re dating makes them a great match. Often this means neglecting their most important needs in order to satisfy the desire for an activity buddy.  The truth is, people have the wrong idea about what makes two people truly compatible. So, let’s…

They say that love conquers all. But, in today’s political climate, can it overcome opposing viewpoints? Regardless of your politics, we can all agree that it’s a hot topic for most people right now. Almost everyone has an opinion and we’re not afraid to share it. We’ve seen friendships end over of our differences while…

You’ve met someone you really like. Things are heating up and it’s clear you’re getting closer on the physical front. But, what if he’s still dating other women? When do you ask for exclusivity and how do you go about it? It’s an individual approach that’s required and one that involves self-awareness, willpower, and confidence….

You’ve got options, we’re here to help you choose the right one.