Women are expressive creatures. They love to chat with friends and family about the men they date. But to what extent? THE NITTY GRITTY DETAILS Women tell their friends just about every detail you can imagine. Yes, women are much more expressive and descriptive about their love lives than you are. From the way you…
Online Dating
In my 25 years of being a relationship expert and personal matchmaker, I found that women love to be with men who inquire and ask meaningful questions. They demonstrate that you are interested in her as a person, able to focus your attention, and can sustain a conversation. However, asking the wrong questions can…
We all have a superficial wish list in a partner, but nothing superficial should ever get in the way of romance. That’s why I always tell my clients, “Throw away your list.” We need to marry your wants with your needs, both of which are based on your values, not looks or age. My advice…
Chemistry has nothing to do with how much two people have in common or how physically appealing they are to the other person. A great date has two main ingredients: physical and emotional chemistry. If you’re not creating emotional chemistry on a date, you’re not dating, you’re just exchanging information. Chemistry is an active process…
Your mother’s list of charming advice is still relevant, but we need to add on to it. Texting, chasing, photos, social media, ghosting, timeline agendas all come into play now. How do you handle them like an adult and get the result you want instead of the frustration you dread. Respond. When you don’t know…
You’ve been on the dating apps for a while. You haven’t met anyone yet but you’ve heard several success stories that inspired you to keep going. I applaud your motivation to take control of your dating life. But I advise you to browse and swipe with caution. Online dating can cause: Loss of time and…
It’s vital you keep your dating reputation squeaky clean. The dating world (and the city you live in) is smaller than you think. Word travels fast and it spreads like wildfire. Women share everything. They drill down to the most microscopic details with their girlfriends during their post date feedback. A woman will praise you, see your depth,…
“Am I honestly ready for the responsibility of marriage?” Most people don’t think about responsibility when they think about marriage. You are looking for companionship, unconditional love, and unwavering support. Those things come with commitment and responsibility that should be acknowledged and respected. Being in love with someone is an amazing experience and one to…